Your Destiny is only predetermined if you quit at trying to change it

Facing the real hard core facts about your life, is the first step in making moves to change your destiny.

First things first, you must look at the underlining things that have made up your life, previous to your choosing to desire such a change in your destiny.

Major unexpected events & experiences of dealing with ones culture, heritage, lifestyle, involvement or engagement in certain life patterns, groups, friends, relations, re-occurring negative experiences, re-occurring positive experiences, and many more things in life as a whole; all have a major influence on an individuals destiny.

- This hub will get to the core reasons, and factors leading to many people having issues, with what I call the destiny trap, & is the answer I submitted to the question posted by, JosieLee Jan 10, 2012.

Q- Do you believe that destiny is predetermined or that you make your own destiny?

When we are born, we all inherit a specific pathway to life, region we reside in, & a vast assortment of geographic factors, boundaries & borders that may have the appearance, as if our destiny's are somewhat sealed.

Actually before we are born, these pathways to our many possible landing points, can be predetermined, especially by our parents without us having any knowledge of such. This is seen all throughout many societies; where it appears that certain people based on cultural ritualistic ways, are also set out to live their lives, as their parents saw fit. Thus, not truly having much freedom of choice in matters, that would determine their own future, and or eventual destiny's outcome.

With that stated, one must look deeply into the factors surrounding their very birth rights & origin into this world, and this can be also seen throughout the pages of history. This is most prevalent, where many people have either, become heirs to a thrown, landed somewhere between rich or poor from birth, inherited nothing other than hardships, years of pain and suffering or was simply granted the biblical religious life of balance, acceptance & preaching.

These forms of pre-destined life situations & the many differing patterns of experience, are not due to pure chance, its mostly dependent on nothing other than God's impression, on such a soul, into a forsaken vessel of a body, but also considered by many superstitious people, as pure luck of the draw.

It really doesn't matter which way a person will try to shift things around in their life, one things for certain is that they cannot play god to change their destiny, by making it all happen at the flicker of a magic wand, or simply by wishing it up to occur, not even faith alone has a destiny changing affect.

Now those who actually believe in such a thing as The Secret, I say good on them, which was a movie that had recently come out about 3 years back, that promised people a chance, at gravitational attracting things into their life, in an all out attempt to change their destiny, simply with the power of mind control, and positive thinking. Many people till this day believe there's some hidden method of making such an occurrence come to life, but nothing is hidden at all. The truth is staring us all right in the eyes. Whether the movie The Secret was right or wrong, in order to change anything, we must realize what directions in life we are currently headed towards.

"I personally refuse to fall for any illusive tricks many others have tried to pull off, in speaking of such fortune telling as The Secret has attempted to do, any false beliefs in superstitions, and the watching or reading of false doctrine, as a rule for making destiny changes in my life.

Instead I will remain determined to work hard on myself, too bring about the changes to my destiny, and if god will allow such a change to occur at all, so be it."

Historically speaking, there were always people who seemed to have all the answers, and that of destiny is just one of those things, that truly requires a great deal of shaping, as well as many countless efforts to make ones life fulfilled & complete.

You need to understand that slide of the hand, and mis-direction is the key some times in changing anything in the physical realm, but might end in some pretty tragic results if done without good careful analysis, balance, & done hastily like many of the ancient historical stories of misfortune have foretold. We have also seen this many times just by turning on the television, reading a news paper, hearing the radio, or using the web to view a story projected to us all, telling of a tragedy that has occurred in someones life, or negatively based theme or plot about some current event of occurrence, both natural or man-made.

It would make it all to easy to do, just by using ones mind to gain access to everything you desire to have, imagine getting it all, just by thinking about what you want all the time. I think they left one thing out of the Laws of attraction equation, and that is the Law of averages. If you've studied science and mathematics, probability, statistics, you would have formulated the argument as to what about that thing known as "chance".

The ancient scriptures have been around for centuries and have been carrying humanity through everything from the great depression to the computer age of the Internet. Humans have been using scripture in a repetitious effort to prove to one another the truest power of possessing knowledge, wisdom and true power of its historical hold in the form of words as played out in the educational systems, in religious belief systems, in governmental systems, in economic systems, and pretty much any system that people have used to some what govern others or that of physical things on this massive earth.

Words are the truest power, to gain access to ones destiny for sure, and this is seen in life throughout many of the most obvious forms, but one form that stands out more than all the rest today is in the digital format, and we all know as the Internet today. All devices are currently connected, or have been built in such a way to have such a capability to make an online connection to the Internet (wireless wifi), and has become the destiny changer of all times, because some peoples lives have simply changed over night it seems, with its usage.

Now just think to yourself, how would any of these happenings on the web have occurred without the use of a single word. Images alone would be looked at for a while, but couldn't have such capability as it has earned today, to get their true points across. The vocal speech factor, wouldn't even apply as a form of communications without words, and video displays would literally be pointless, because not a single advertisement would make a successful landing to a persons eye, inbox's, or web pages we all been surfing these years since its inception.

• Study the art of words, and its many forms

• Study languages to understand other cultures

• Re-educate yourself in many ways about any and all options you have available

• Realize that destiny changes is only granted to those who are willing to try
• Never give up your desire and motives to improve yourself for the better

• Destiny is something you must grasp hold of and state claim too

• There's no one side to the destiny game, good or bad outcomes

• Ones destiny may turn multiple directions prior to finalization

• Planning, goal creation, creativity ,experienced efforts, determination

• Those above are all destiny changers and words that hold great values

• Everything you do, and don't do will all add up with a drop of chance

• Acknowledgement of the fact that you have very little control of it all
• Try making small changes each day, even editing a hub or two is an example
• Make life worth living early in the game by not dwelling on the past
• Learn the tricks of what ever trade you choose to be in
• Use the tools that's given, and if you don't know how, ask questions